Blog
Welcome to my blog.
Writing is where I get to explore the "why" behind the work I do. Social media is fine, but it’s not always the best place for a deeper, more honest conversation. This space is for that.
This blog is where I share the behind-the-scenes realities of my work—the parts that don't fit into a quick post and the concepts that require a bit more thought.
Here, you’ll find articles and insights on:
What it’s really like to work with the spirit world.
Practical, no-nonsense ways to develop your own intuition.
My personal experiences from readings and conversations with "the other side."
Debunking the "Hollywood" myths and focusing on the real, practical work of spiritual development.
My goal here is the same as in my private readings: to demystify the process and provide clear, grounded answers.
Browse the articles below. I hope you find something useful.
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A dead friend of mine has offered to do a Q and A
David died in 2005, aged 33. He has agreed to sit down with me and answer your questions about death, dying and what comes after. Be brave — he doesn't mince his words.
Where do I get all my information from?
The answer is scarier than it looks. Everything I do comes back to controlling my intuition — and intuition is standard issue for every single one of us.
Is my life going to get better?
Marit only wanted to know one thing about her future. Looking at it, I saw the same rubbish repeating for another ten years — and why one different choice changes all of it.
What do you do when you disagree with your Helper?
My Helper has spent years trying to push me towards a life in the public eye, the right programmes, the right people. I keep saying no. So who actually knows best, you or your Helper?
I wrote three pages and got nearly four back
Two readings, two very different replies. One filled in all the gaps I did not know I had, and the other was three words long and made my week.
I went on the radio and got it badly wrong
A presenter asked what was in a glass on her table at home. I got the answer, decided it was too odd to be right, and said nothing. I still go red thinking about it.
I keep overhearing the dead, and they keep shutting the door on me
It is not one person trying to reach me. It is the noise of people talking in another room, and the moment I notice them, they stop and look at me like I am being rude.
Maria is planning her own arrival on the other side
She says she will die after Christmas, and she says it very matter of factly. She has a shortlist of who should meet her, and she will not be arriving naked.
Stop complaining and do something about it
If you do not get involved, you cannot change anything. Short and blunt this time, from a man who was very cold indeed when the photo was taken.
Can a healer do harm? Of course they can
People keep telling me healing can only ever do good. That is rubbish, and pretending otherwise does nobody any favours. Let us pop that particular bubble.
I used to read people's lives in the froth on a pint of Guinness
A skint student with a useful trick, and it only worked if they bought the pint and I drank it. There is an actual principle hiding in there, and an exercise you can try.
Doing readings should be a consequence, not the goal
A lady in Stavanger wants to do what I do. Here is the advice I would give her, and why the readings should never be the thing you are aiming at.
Strip out the ego and here is what is actually left
I promised you an answer, so here it is. What our dead care about, what they absolutely do not, and why my mother would be furious about the cabin.
Dead people grieve too, and they get help with it
Two months ago her energy was bouncing off the walls and another dead person had to come and ground her. Today she came back calm, and had things worth hearing.
The dead woman in the chair next to me said something worth stopping for
I was halfway through a reading when she said it, and I had to put everything down. One small line from someone who had a hard life in hard circumstances.
The harder you focus, the worse the connection gets
Some days the office is the floor, the hallway, or a beautiful spot outdoors. And connecting to the spirit world works the opposite way round to how you would think.
A hundred years of progress, and the hamster wheel it built
The first commercial TV broadcast was a hundred years ago today, the same year my grandfather was born. Look what we have made since. Just because we can does not mean we should.
I am going to turn you into healers, starting with your hands
Rub your palms together for ten seconds and you will feel it tingle. Raw energy, no purpose, waiting for you to give it one. Here is exactly how to start.
The man who sat at the end of my bed every night
Tall, unshaven, wide-brimmed hat, a terrier on a rope. He was there every single night until I was twelve, and he only ever said two words to me.
Katarina cried, swore at me, and two years later said thank you
Her reading was hard going and I did not hold back. She cried, cursed me and shut it away for months. Then she opened it again, and everything changed.