Maria is planning her own arrival on the other side

I have permission to write this post.

I have just finished a reading for a lady who is dying. She tells me she is going to die after Christmas. She says it in a very matter-of-fact way, and I think she is probably right.

Now, you might think this is a macabre thing to write about, especially with Christmas just around the corner, but stay with me.

Maria is ill and has been for a long time. Her body is screaming at her to stop, to fall asleep for the last time, but she is stubborn and wants the holidays out of the way first.

You might think it odd that somebody so close to death would want a reading. It is not. Maria is planning her arrival on the other side of life. She has already planned her death.

1. She wants to make sure the right people are there to meet her when she arrives (she has a shortlist).

2. She wants somebody she trusts (her brother) to tell her that she made it — that she has died.

3. There must be no unpleasant surprises.

4. She does not want to arrive naked.

5. She does not want to see her husband — at least not straight away.

Maria explained that she expected her husband to be either too excited or too upset about her arriving. She thought it would be easier if he waited a while before coming to see her.

You can probably tell that Maria has thought about this and decided exactly what she wants.

From my perspective this is all very straightforward. It is easy for me to find Maria's brother and the two other family members she wants there for her. To be honest, it is easy to find her husband too, and he seems like such a nice man.

Anyway, Maria's brother laughed out loud at his sister's list of demands and indicated that none of them would be a problem. He also said that Maria is going to get a bit of a shock when she realises how different life — death — is, and that it will take a while to get used to.

He had one piece of advice for her, and I have thought long and hard about whether it is wise to mention it in this post. I still do not know whether it is a good idea, but if everyone reading this assumes it is one man's advice to his sister, and not general advice for everybody, then I think it is all right to mention.

He said this:

When you die, relax. It is like being on a roller coaster. You are strapped in and nearly at the top of the ride, there is no way back and you cannot get off. If you worry or panic, the ride down towards the ground is going to be frightening. If you relax and remember that it is only a ride and that you are safe, it will be easy and enjoyable. We have all done it and arrived safely, and so will you.

Maria's brother said this with a smile on his face and told me she has always been a control freak. When he talks to me he is open, honest, light-hearted, and clearly looking forward to seeing his sister.

So there you have it, folks.

I have stayed away from writing about readings for people who are close to death, because I think it is a very private and personal thing for everyone involved. In this case, Maria was more than happy for me to tell you about it.

Although she is not looking forward to her last moments in this world, she is very pleased that she has it all under control.

Simon

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