Blog
Welcome to my blog.
Writing is where I get to explore the "why" behind the work I do. Social media is fine, but it’s not always the best place for a deeper, more honest conversation. This space is for that.
This blog is where I share the behind-the-scenes realities of my work—the parts that don't fit into a quick post and the concepts that require a bit more thought.
Here, you’ll find articles and insights on:
What it’s really like to work with the spirit world.
Practical, no-nonsense ways to develop your own intuition.
My personal experiences from readings and conversations with "the other side."
Debunking the "Hollywood" myths and focusing on the real, practical work of spiritual development.
My goal here is the same as in my private readings: to demystify the process and provide clear, grounded answers.
Browse the articles below. I hope you find something useful.
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Oslo at Easter, black metal fans and muddy puddles
A few days in Oslo, work and fun. The city is quiet apart from the Inferno festival crowd, who turn out to be genuinely lovely and very sociable.
A coin from the Tower of London, minted in 1545
When I hold it, I don't just see silver. I feel the hands that traded with it nearly 500 years ago. That's psychometry, and you can try it yourself right now.
A spirit touched me this morning, and I burst into tears
There's a woman in my house who isn't Mrs Milton-Jones. This morning she put her hand on my shoulder and let me know she understands how hard things are right now.
I started my morning with an eviction
Most people think moving a spirit on involves candles, prayers and walking towards the light. It doesn't. When they refuse to leave, I don't negotiate.
Do something... anything at all!
Marit is waiting for a sign before she acts. Nobody is going to give her one. Her dad, her Helper and the universe are all waiting for her to move first.
The dead don't care about your Tesla
Anne Kristin asked what new perspective the dead actually get. The honest answer is a reality check: they aren't impressed by your bank balance, but they do care whether you're living.
Just because they're dead doesn't mean they're right
There's a common misconception that the moment you cross over you get an IQ boost and a halo. You don't. A bossy control freak in life is a bossy control freak in spirit.
Love and light doesn't pay your bills
I've had enough of the sugar-coated nonsense I hear day in, day out from others in my trade. It isn't spirituality. It's avoidance, plain and simple.
Where do you draw the line between insight and intrusion?
Being able to read someone and see the truth is a gift. Being able to unpick them is a curse. So do I pull the thread, or do I keep my mouth shut and watch the car crash?
I can't meditate, and I have stopped pretending otherwise
My mind goes from what's for dinner to did I book the farrier. The myth of the perfect hour-long lotus-position meditation is just more noise. Here's what I do instead.
The book is nearly at the printers, and David has plenty to say
His first thought on seeing his own wrecked car was bloody hell, what a mess. Dying didn't shut him up. The antidote to love and light is nearly ready.
You might be my favourite weirdos
After a couple of hundred readings in as many months, one thing is obvious: the most interesting people are the ones who stopped trying to be so terribly sensible.
How to hear what your Helpers are actually saying
I promised I'd tell you how to listen. It starts with a pen, a piece of paper, and writing the word hello. Nothing strange will happen — and that's the point.
Bad luck, or is it an intervention?
Sometimes a flat tyre in the rain is just a flat tyre. And sometimes that run of rotten luck is your Helpers pulling the handbrake because you stopped listening.
The beige trap, and why comfort starts to feel like a prison
Nobody is throwing plates and there is no crisis. It's just... beige. Hollywood tells us that when the fireworks fade you have to leave. That, folks, is fake news.
What’s going on!?!
What's going on!?! Are we losing the will to live? In the last week, I have written five readings for people who have found themselves stuck in their normal life. Each of them had a kind of "desperation" in their messages. . .